Trigger words: privilege
Indicator sentences: but I feel privilege is kind of too negative of a term.
Negotiation parts: We tend to look down on "privileged children" who haven't earned what they have in life. Maybe the technical definition of the word suits, but in common usage it tends to have a negative connotation. I can't think of a better "buzz phrase" but perhaps something like "invisible advantages" or something of that nature would lead to a healthier discussion.
Trigger words: rape culture
Indicator sentences: Just curious, what exactly do you mean by rape culture?
Negotiation parts: I'm too lazy to retype everything so I'm just going to link this: http://www.onyxtruth.com/2014/04/11/rapecultureiswhen/ The tl;dr version is that American culture has a particular cultural narrative about rape, a mythos so to speak, and that mythos is not consistant with the reality of what rape is like both in general and for victims. So ideas like men can't be raped, what a victim was wearing makes a difference, rape is committed by strangers - all of those things are false, yet they are part of our cultural narrative. And when people buy into those myths it ends up doing real damage to victims by people who don't believe them, who harass them, etc etc. So yes we as a culture aren't particularly accepting of rape, but we also aren't particularly clear on what rape is, how victims behave, who victims are, who rapists are, etc.